You heard the truth here first. Quote me any time.
If you don’t understand what I mean, just watch the asshole uncle on your next family gathering. Watch the ones who are trying to cosy up to him to divert this unpleasent attention from themselfes. Watch the ones avoiding him at all costs to dodge being hit. On other occasions it’s not ‘first come first serve’ but ‘annoying ones first’. This is the truth about social space.